Here we make the connection with the Yin and the Yang.
Or – Or
While we can often speak better in terms of And – And.
In the physical world, that is often not possible. We are born as children with either a female or a male gender.
But in the meta-physical, in our thinking and in our actions we can decide to listen, for example, to ask a question, or to speak up ourselves.
And this choice is not a permanent one. You can alternate these. And when you talk it doesn't mean you stopped listening.
So it is with love. Man does not have to make a (conscious or unconscious) choice to love someone unconditionally or conditionally. I will elaborate on this further on the basis of parent-child and love relationships.
either/or
but
both/and?
ambition and limiting
Being, Caring, and Seducing
Raising children
Stand
Walk
Ride a bike
...
LoveLife
M/W
M/M
W/W
Is she looking for an honest answer?
A father that is 'married' to work and never at home?
A father that is an alcoholic and beats his wife and children?
Sexuality